THE DANNY GOLD EXPERIENCE

Whenever I speak with my other sex worker  friends we love to talk shop. We discuss bookings that were challenging, ones we refused to accept, and our favorite — those who were just so easy . Those are the best. We share praise and celebration with each other when we are blessed with an easy client . As we deserve! We all know that sex work  generally comes at a premium, and for many of us it’s not because we need to gatekeep access to sexual enjoyment — many of us love to en

When I started my career around 2007, it was a much different industry than what we see today. Technology and human rights movements have had a massive impact on the world of sex work. I do love to gripe like the ancient vampire hooker that I am (19 civilian years equals approximately 100 escort years) and complain about how these kids have no idea what it was like to have a landline, print ads, and virtually zero access to screening. We booked based on vibes. And we LIKED it

When I first started my career as an escort, I did not offer “Greek.” Not because I didn’t want to - I really  did. I loved rimming and any kind of external anal play, but penetration felt like too much to offer with a stranger. If I was ever able to get there, it was a very slow process. I won’t totally derail this blog with all of my woo-woo spiritual beliefs about anal (trust me, I have many and they run deep), but I will  take this opportunity to educate. When I was young

I have worked in sex work for most of my adult life. I came to it through necessity - a young parent doing the math and realizing traditional work wasn’t going to keep my family afloat. Becoming a dominatrix, then soon after an escort, offered something different - autonomy, efficiency, and the ability to survive without being consumed by labor. Sexuality itself was never confusing to me. I’ve always been embodied and expressive in that way, and it became a bridge - a place w

Psychedelic medicine is inherently sexual. That’s not to say all of it involves sex acts - in fact, it really often doesn’t, and...

The key components to cultivating this self care space are: safety and release of shame.

There are so many varying energies and motivations behind the drive to hire a sex worker. It could be innocent exploration, intimacy without commitment, scratching a specific itch, trying something new, or having an outlet to feel a sense of power and control - whether with good intentions or otherwise. I had a wonderful realization the other day about one thing that all of my clients in all of my different phases of this business had in common: An innate need to play. I be

Ketamine is a substance that is increasing in popularity rapidly over recent years whether on a dance floor or a therapist’s office. I...

Or any casual sex encounter! If you’ve paid any attention on the internet, you’ll notice that many folks complain about the preparations...

So you’re interested in booking me… and you’ve noticed I identify as non-binary - and trans?! What does that even mean? Better yet - what...

In other words - Learn to eat pussy like a pro! There are so many tips and methods on how to *properly* pleasure a person with a pussy....

A blog to follow the musings and adventures of your erotic psychedelic guide, kinky companion, and tantra teacher. I'm Danny. I'm a...